Right about now is when school becomes one big stress ball of emotions for me. Between testing and report cards and looming culmination....not to mention the senioritis that hits the fifth graders....April is really a hard month in which to teach. And it isn't just me. It seems like overall the staff (not just at my school but at all schools in my area) just tend to be a bit more stressed and down. So when I read what Angela Watson of The Cornerstone for Teaching had to say in Chapter 7 of her new book Unshakeable: 20 Ways to Enjoy Teaching Every Day...No Matter What , it really struck a chord with me.
This chapter is all about how you, one person, can affect the entire school culture. The big takeaway for me was to stay positive. In all of your interactions with colleagues, remain steadfast in your positivity.
I have to admit, this is hard for me sometimes. It is just so easy to give in to the complaining as a way to destress. But, as Angela points out, it is actually more stress making to do that. Staying in the negative is perpetuated by being negative. If you give in to the complaining colleague, you are helping them to stay negative as well as to bring yourself into a negative space. By finding just one thing that is positive about the situation, you can instantly help not only your complaining colleague, but yourself, to enter into a more positive zone.
The chapter goes on to give quite a few examples and suggestions as to how you, one person, can turn a negative school culture around. Creating fun food days or starting a social bash day to celebrate birthdays are just a few of the easy ways to help bring your staff together. Here are some of the other ideas that I thought were particularly doable:
Put potpourri in the staff bathroom.
Write thank you notes to your fellow staff members for something they did to make your day easier.
Acknowledge each other with a Teacher of the Week recognition.
Compliment each other on lessons that went well or bulletin boards that are outstanding.
All of these ideas can help to make people feel more appreciated at school and bring in a more positive climate. I know that tomorrow, when I go back after Spring Break, I will definitely be doing some of them.
What are some things that you have done to help make your school a more positive place to be? How do you deal with negative people?